The day started well but did not end well. unfortunately i did not enjoy my day.only got 2birthday wishes, fist from my dear friend in Ghana then my best friend who is currently in Nairobi Kenya then 3 plus the one sent by TIG ofcourse.at first i was excited thinking that my family and friends were silent and acting unbothered simply because they had asurprise party for me or something.i woke up heard my usual breakfast,nothing special for abirthday girl,dressed up and headed to the salon,had my hair locked as i have dreads now for the past six months,went to the cafe read my mail and after some time went home in the evening.waited for surprises but all in vain.the day ended just like that and none of my family members seemed to remember that it was my birthday.i did not even think of reminding them as i was troo disappointed and just ended up sulking the whole day and night through.up untill now i have not revealel my feelings to them and none of them has yet remembered that my birhtday past.so that was how i sent my 21st year on this planet.otherwise thank you for the card and for every thing else,bye.